About Us
Monica and Ian
We don’t teach relationship from the sidelines
We’ve been together since 2006, parents since 2010 and students of relationship every day. We’ve had our share of disconnection, hard conversations and steep learning curves – and we continue to daily practice what we teach.
We’re both Certified Nonviolent Communication Trainers and Accredited Solution Focus coaches.
Our story
The path that shaped our purpose
Our relationship has not been perfect, but every challenge became a lesson.
1
We fell
in love
We connected deeply and chose to be together and builf a life full of dreams and hope.
2
Then it got
difficult
Stress, health concerns, cultural differences and old wounds got in the way. We felt further apart.
3
We found ways back to each other
We applied NVC tools and learned new ones. Slowly trust and closeness returned.
4
Our purpose
became clear
We share what’s worked for us so you can create more connection, repair and intimacy.
“Often we were not fighting each other but fighting the echoes of earlier experiences.”
Meet Monica and Ian
Monica
Reu
CNVC Certified Trainer
Coach and Mediator
Born in Romania, Monica has been a trainer and coach for nearly 20 years.
Certified as an NVC Trainer in 2009 she is also a Solution Focus coach and mediator.
Ian
Peatey
CNVC Certified Trainer
Coach and Facilitator
Born in UK, Ian has been a trainer and coach for nearly 30 years.
Certified as an NVC trainer in 2008 he is also a Solution Focus coach and mediator.
What we believe about relationships
Conflict
isn’t failure
Disagreements are natural. They are opportunities to understand each other more deeply.
Repair
is possible
Every rupture can be repaired. The willingness to return to each other builds trust and resilience.
Relationship
is a practice
Strong relationships don’t just happen. They’re built through daily choices and small consistent steps.
Understanding
is key
When we feel truly heard and understood, connection and intimacy naturally grow.
What’s next in your relationship?
We’d love to hear your story and explore how we can support you. Let’s take the first step together.
